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| Arriving at the Amtrak Station parking lot in San Diego |
A few weeks ago, I took Jeremy's bike
to have it tuned up. We've had his bike hanging in the garage since
Jeremy died in 1992. I would dust it off every now and then, but I
never got around to riding it. When we lived in Kent, Washington, I
bought fenders for it so that I could ride it in the Seattle's normal
wetness. I don't know why, but I didn't ride Jeremy's newly fendered
bicycle. It stayed hanging in the garage, as a memorial, of sorts,
to our dead son.
I have been riding an old Schwinn ten
speed that I've had for nearly 30 years. It works well, although, by
today's standards, it is a very heavy antique.
At the end of September, my younger
brother, John, and my cousin, Anthony, rode their bikes from John and
Winnie's house in Costa Mesa to San Diego. It took them over twelve
hours. About a week after their ride, John asked me if I thought I
was strong enough to ride to San Diego with him. He expressed his
concern for my heart condition. The distance from his house to the
Amtrak station in San Diego was 90 miles. The longest I had ever
ridden a bicycle was in 1990 when I rode 22 miles from downtown Los
Angeles to Long Beach. 90 miles was a distance I had difficulty
imagining myself riding on a bicycle. The furthest I had ridden a bicycle
in the last year was to Seal Beach and back. That was only fourteen
miles round trip. I rode my bicycle to the university pool each
weekday morning, but that was only a mile and a half each way.
I thought about it for a day or two
and told my brother that I would join him in a ride. He called and
recommended that I get an odometer for my bike, a tune up and a snack
to eat on the way. He told me that he would give me his old bicycle
seat which was a better seat than the current one on Jeremy's bike.
He suggested that I buy padded bicycle riding gloves because the
handlebars would hurt my wrists after riding for several hours. I
took his advice and went one step further, wrapping the front
handlebars with soft rubber pipe insulation.
I took a 37 mile practice ride from my
house in Long Beach to Newport Beach about a week before our planned
San Diego ride. The wind picked up when I turned around from Newport
Beach. I struggled to pedal downhill against the wind. I rode
against the wind for about ten miles. It was a good practice ride.
The night before our ride I loaded
Jeremy's bike into the van. Looking at it, I felt a tear slide down
my cheek. The next day's ride would fall on the eve of the
anniversary of Jeremy's death. Denise and Celeste drove me to John
and Winnie's house in Costa Mesa. Denise gave me a heartfelt hug and
returned home to Long Beach with Celeste.
The alarm sounded at 5:30 AM. The sun
had not awakened yet. John and Winnie still slept. I got up, took a
shower and put on the new bicycle jersey that Denise bought for me.
I pulled on Jeremy's bicycle pants. I felt awkward walking in them
because of the extra padding in the crotch. I walked into the
kitchen and ate a bowl of cereal. When I finished eating, John asked
me if I wanted anything before we left. I wanted Jeremy to be riding
with us. I wanted my son to be alive.
We turned on the bike lights, mounted
our bicycles and headed west to the river trail. I felt good, wide
awake and magically at peace. Turning south onto the river trail, I said, “Good
Morning,” as I passed an older gentleman who was taking an early
morning walk. The bike trail terminated at Pacific
Coast Highway. I could hear the waves crashing on the sand when we
turned east onto the main road. Thoughts of Jeremy pedaled into my
heart as we approached the far end of Newport Beach. We had floated
Jeremy's ashes off that beach so many years ago.
I asked John, “What happens when we
get to the Marine base?”
There was a moment of silence before
John replied, “Oh no. I forgot my wallet. We'll have to show our
ID when we get to the base. I'll have to call Winnie to bring it to
me. I'll tell her to meet me at Dover Street.”
I rode passed Dover and waited for
John at the gas station on the other side of the bridge. Looking at
the water I noticed the empty dock where a river boat had been moored
in the 1970s. I remembered listening to Jason, a friend from high
school, sing and play guitar in its restaurant. Jason died,
driving off a cliff in Big Sur when in his twenties. John finally
came over the bridge.
A morning mist kept us cool, while our
strides kept us warm. Newport Beach has no designated bike lane on
the highway. Cars passed uncomfortably close to us. We reached our
first hill as we approached Newport Center Drive. Reaching down, I
shifted gears for the first time that day. I looked ahead to see the
sunshine paint the clouds in shades of gray and the grass and trees
in shades of green. Up and down we pedaled, through Laguna Beach
towards Dana Point. The restaurant that John wanted us to stop at
for coffee was closed, out of business. We continued a little
further until we reached Stacks Pancake House. We ordered coffee and
we tried to figure out why my new odometer wasn't working. The clock
worked fine, but it wouldn't track the miles. We assumed that it
must be a dead battery in the wheel's sensor.
When we reached Califia Park, near the
south end of San Clemente, we were stopped because of an accident on
the bike trail. John and I waited for about 30 minutes with a
growing number of bicyclists who were doing the Multiple Sclerosis
ride. The fire department paramedics eventually sent off the
ambulance. They let us continue as a huge pack. We passed a red
emergency truck and saw a paramedic busy working on a bicyclist.
As we passed the San Onofre Nuclear
power plant, I thought of Homer Simpson and my friend, Tom, who works
there. I've known him since elementary school. I also thought about
the tsunami disaster in Japan. I rode eagerly passed the power
plant. I smiled when I saw a sign that read, “No Nudity Allowed”
as we entered the San Onofre State Park. After we passed the park,
the bike trail went under the freeway. We continued south until we
reached an MS bike ride rest stop at Las Pulgas Road. They offered
us bananas, orange slices, candy and drinks. Jax Bike shop set up a
small repair station there. I asked them to look at my odometer,
since Denise bought it for me at a Jax Bike shop in Long Beach, the day before. The
battery was fine. I had installed the wheel receptor incorrectly.
Now I could see how fast I was traveling.
We followed the MS bikers under the
bridge and into the marine base. I started to dismount to show my
ID, when the guard told me that I didn't need to stop. There was a
person behind me, however, who he asked if he was part of the MS
group. The guard assumed that John and I were.
Riding through the marine base, I
remembered that Jeremy chose to be a hospital corpsman who worked as
a medic for the marines. He said that the marines think of
themselves as invincible. He got to fix them when Mother Nature
proved them wrong. A small slice of pride swelled for our son. As
we were leaving the base, I heard a pop and a slow fizzle as the rear
tire of the bike ahead of me flattened out. I followed the MS riders
under the freeway and onto Pacific Street in Oceanside. John said,
“By now you have ridden further than you ever have.”
I had never seen this pretty side of
Oceanside. I liked it. People sat along the sidewalk encouraging
us, along with the MS riders. The residential streets were not busy
and we could see the ocean between the houses. We climbed a small
hill from sea level on the highway into Carlsbad. The clouds teased
the sun by opening little blue holes every now and then. John and I
stopped and shared a large ahi tuna sandwich in a restaurant at the
end of the business district. John called Winnie to tell her that we
would reach San Diego in about four hours. I talked to Denise who
expressed her surprise that were already in Carlsbad.
Replenished, John and I hopped on our
bikes and rode along the bluff, overlooking the beach below. John
told me that there would be three more beaches before we reached the
hard climb at Torrey Pines. The waves crashed and surfers carried
their boards to and from their cars. The salt air filled my
nostrils, while memories of Jeremy warmed my heart. The road through
Leucadia brought us back in competition with the cars and trucks as
they whizzed by, inches away, at times.
When we were about to ride down the
last hill, along the last beach before Torrey Pines, John told me to
go ahead. I picked up speed in an effort to gain as much ground as
possible for the long climb. As I climbed, I shifted gears and kept
looking at the ground. Up ahead I could see a turn. My knees
started to burn, my breathing labored. “Keep pushing, don't look
up.” I kept telling myself. When the burning in my knees reached a
point where a small voice said, “Don't overdo it,” I dismounted
and walked. I looked down the hill, but I could not see John. I
walked a bit, allowing my knees to cool down. The Torrey Pines hill
shielded the ocean breeze, making the climb all the hotter. I
climbed back on the bike and pedaled until I reached the top. I
parked my bike and waited about ten minutes for John to reach me. He
dismounted and called Winnie, giving her an update.
When we passed the UC San Diego, John
stopped and pulled out Winnie's phone to access the GPS. He couldn't
remember how to get to get to Gillman Drive. I saw a woman riding
her bike and yelled out to her, “Do you know where Gillman Drive
is?”
“Follow me,” she said. She waited
for John to put away the phone and catch up with her. She led us
down a steep hill. We went under the freeway and onto a bike trail.
When we came off the bike trial and onto the city streets, John
mentioned that there was another bike trail along a river. But he
didn't know where it was. When he reached a busy intersection, an
older man on a bike was talking to a younger woman telling her to go
on without him. John asked him if he knew where the river trail was.
It was directly across the street. Without this gentleman's being
there to ask, we wouldn't have found it. John told me that the river
trail saved us a lot of grief riding in heavy traffic. The river
trail terminated in Mission Bay. John and I stopped there to take a
break and eat a Payday candy bar.
As I nibbled on my candy bar, I
thought that Jeremy would have loved to have taken this ride with the
little Russian sister that he never met. He died two years before we
adopted her. When we finished our break, we hopped on our bikes and
pedaled through town. We had to stop and cross a busy street in
front of the U.S. Marine Processing Center. Again, I thought of
Jeremy.
“See those tall glass high rise
building ahead of us?” John asked. “The train station is right
next to them. I bet you can't wait to get there.”
“Actually, I'm doing fine. I am
getting thirsty though.”
We rode into the Amtrak parking lot
and walked our bikes to Starbucks to wait for Winnie and Denise to
arrive. It had taken us a little more than nine hours. Sipping my
latte and looking out the Starbucks window, I thanked Jeremy for
riding 90 miles with me.
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